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In my current transition to become a better and effective human i am going to tackle a goal each week, so since its Tuesday, a new one every Tuesday!

THIS WEEKS GOAL TOPIC: HUMANS

As the first weeks goal and possibly the very hardest, humans are a very hard area to create change within. Everyone has issues with why they are the way they are with other humans.

It is really hard to be a mature and in control person. Before you know it word vomit is spewing out and you have transformed into a person who does not spread love. Maybe people have hurt you in the past, or maybe you have issues with your parents, or you were brought up a certain way. Either way, this week I (and maybe anyone else who does not read this blog) ((lol)) (((but really))) am going to practice finding peace within me to really be able to shine to even people who may ALWAYS press my buttons. I cannot get along with everyone, but I can show everyone love.

THE KEY HERE IS: this includes the icky thoughts in your brain as well. If you show love but are only FEELING hate then it doesnt count. So diiiigggg deeeeeepppp.

Think of the person who you struggle the hardest with when it comes to being friendly: ask yourself the following:
Why do you feel this way about this person
Is it personal?
Is it just a mismatched character issue?
Does whatever they did to you matter today?
If it does matter, will it still matter in a year?

I know the person that I find hard to do this with, and to be honest, when I think about it, I still can't get over the feelings I for them. HOWEVER I do realize that it is petty and reaaalllyyy doesn't affect me today. I'm not sure if an apology would help, but I do not like feeling ugly feelings towards someone. It makes me feel ugly.

I am going to reach out to them this week.

Show love and you will give love. It is a simple idea with a hard journey.

Anyway...heres a funny joke:
Q. What do you call a guy who never farts in public?
A. A private tutor.


ps. the picture of bob dylan may seem like it has nothing to do with this blog....but he is a human...and a beautiful one at that.